Make all timeouts configurable
**Acceptance Criteria**
* All hard coded timeouts should be configurable
* All timeouts we run into should be logged
**Tasks**
- [x] Add a new configuration parameter for the "too-bright" timeout
- [x] Add a new configuration parameter for the backup actor-action request
- [x] Add a new configuration parameter for the failed backup actor-action timeout
- [x] Document all new configuration parameters
- [x] All doings should be logged (eg. waiting n secs, because of..)
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